BE THE PROCESS….NOT THE PROCESSOR!!!

(Special retreat note for you at the bottom of this article).   Hopefully, I am one of the ordinary, everyday, normal people you can happily call a friend. That’s because I try, as much as I can, to be normal. So what does it mean to be normal….? For each of us there may be … Read more

THINKING MAKES IT SO

Is it possible to live a life without regret? And if it is at all possible how do we best achieve it? What’s the secret? One answer is very simple: be lucky enough to have everything flow seamlessly in your life: thoroughly enjoy your work, your family, your friendships and your opportunities……… and delight in … Read more

EASTER MESSAGE

Death comes to all of us. At Easter Christians celebrate the life and mortal passing of a most remarkable and selfless man called Yeshua. He not only overturned the money lenders’ tables outside the synagogue but also laid the groundwork for what has been the most influential religion of the last two millennia. Many of … Read more

WHEN LOVED ONES PASS OVER

We all face those sad times when loved ones pass on….hopefully these words will give comfort if it has recently happened to you…. Or is shortly to happen…. When loved ones are ready to pass over it is helpful to send them thoughts and prayers of peace and assurance that all is safe. When they … Read more

WHAT EXACTLY IS LOVE?

We all talk about it, all seek it, all obsess over it – but what is it?   Let’s start by being clear about what it isn’t….. It isn’t sex. It isn’t ego satisfaction. It isn’t mere attraction. It isn’t an obligation. It isn’t the genetic impulse to have children. It isn’t a euphoric feeling … Read more

DO YOU THINK LIFE IS SOMETIMES TOO HARD ?

When the Roman army marched into England in 43 AD its soldiers (and their female helpers) walked over 2,500kms fully laden just to get there. There were no planes, trains or motorcars. When Genghis Khan, the Mongolian ruler of China took his warriors (and often, their women) west, conquering the lands he crossed as he … Read more

DO YOU THINK YOU ARE NECESSARY?

Sebastian Junger wrote in his book Tribe: “Society has perfected the art of making people not feel necessary.“   Think about that for a moment…… Do you sometimes think you’re an unnecessary add-on? Do you sometimes feel you’re expendable? That it wouldn’t matter if you didn’t exist? Stop reading now if you think you’re worthwhile. … Read more

ONE MAN(KIND)

Imagine one Being. Standing. Naked. Arms outstretched. Legs apart, perfectly balanced. Sexual gender ambivalent Totally at peace. Content. Complete. Fulfilled. Now zoom in closer. 100 trillion cells compose the body….. 100 trillion atoms compose just one cell…… Protons, neutrons and electrons compose each and every atom….. There’s also many many trillions of light rays (photons) … Read more

I STILL REMEMBER YOU….

Before this week’s article, I’d like to take a moment to directly THANK YOU for being part of my (and Trudi’s) wider family. We may meet rarely, if at all (you may not even reply to my emails) but you are still a beloved part of our spiritual family,,,,and life would be less satisfying without … Read more

WHAT WOULD YOU SAY……?

A beautiful writer, Terri St Cloud wrote : “If (after death) I’m asked what I did with my life I want to be able to say “I offered Love”…… What would you say? For some I’m sure the answer would be “made a lot of money” or “had some great jobs” or “visited some amazing … Read more